Should we give importance to our future plans ?

More and more people are getting obsessed about how their life has to be , family, friends, work... But it is really necessary ? I don´t think we should worry too much for it moreover I totally disagree with it.

Life changes every second  maybe today we are part of a very prestigious company and tomorrow we are unemployed or we think  we have found someone special and then we find out he is not what we expected. It´s impossible to plan our future and be sure it is going to work .

Societys prejudice has become a strong influential instrument ,we are used to it because is what we have been taught  but it is really indispensible to follow it?  while we are down in the dumps  when we fail, when someone breaks our heart or when we get demoted, failures doesn't exist to make us even more sad, they are our leverage , our elevator to success. Ones we know how to treat them is so much easy to face all those millions problems left over.

 No one has a perfect job , a fantastic husband and beautiful children and I am sure most of us don´t have what we had desired once , it is our work to make whatever we got unique and matchless. People´s opinions , it can sounds like a topic but  does not matter at all.

Felling confidence in my opinion is the most important skills . If you do not want to get marry don´t get it , don't have children if you don´t want to , travel all around, meet different people, cultures and never give up on those goal you have set they make us going through  the good way it is not a dilemma if weren´t able to achieve our ambition.

 It seems to me that planning our future is a mistake I am not saying not to care about it  , just to enjoy and not to envy anyone .