More
and more people are getting obsessed about how their life has to be , family,
friends, work... But it is really necessary ? I don´t think we should worry too
much for it moreover I totally disagree with it.
Life
changes every second maybe today we are
part of a very prestigious company and tomorrow we are unemployed or we think we have found someone special and then we find
out he is not what we expected. It´s impossible to plan our future and
be sure it is going to work .
Societys
prejudice has become a strong influential instrument ,we are used to it because
is what we have been taught but it is really
indispensible to follow it? while we are
down in the dumps when we fail, when
someone breaks our heart or when we get demoted, failures doesn't exist to make
us even more sad, they are our leverage , our elevator to success. Ones we know
how to treat them is so much easy to face all those millions problems left
over.
No one has a perfect job , a fantastic husband
and beautiful children and I am sure most of us don´t have what we had desired
once , it is our work to make whatever we got unique and matchless. People´s
opinions , it can sounds like a topic but
does not matter at all.
Felling
confidence in my opinion is the most important skills . If you do not want to
get marry don´t get it , don't have children if you don´t want to , travel all around,
meet different people, cultures and never give up on those goal you have set
they make us going through the good way
it is not a dilemma if weren´t able to achieve our ambition.
It seems to me that planning our future is a
mistake I am not saying not to care about it
, just to enjoy and not to envy anyone .