Should we give importance to our future plans ?

More and more people are getting obsessed about how their life has to be , family, friends, work... But it is really necessary ? I don´t think we should worry too much for it moreover I totally disagree with it.

Life changes every second  maybe today we are part of a very prestigious company and tomorrow we are unemployed or we think  we have found someone special and then we find out he is not what we expected. It´s impossible to plan our future and be sure it is going to work .

Societys prejudice has become a strong influential instrument ,we are used to it because is what we have been taught  but it is really indispensible to follow it?  while we are down in the dumps  when we fail, when someone breaks our heart or when we get demoted, failures doesn't exist to make us even more sad, they are our leverage , our elevator to success. Ones we know how to treat them is so much easy to face all those millions problems left over.

 No one has a perfect job , a fantastic husband and beautiful children and I am sure most of us don´t have what we had desired once , it is our work to make whatever we got unique and matchless. People´s opinions , it can sounds like a topic but  does not matter at all.

Felling confidence in my opinion is the most important skills . If you do not want to get marry don´t get it , don't have children if you don´t want to , travel all around, meet different people, cultures and never give up on those goal you have set they make us going through  the good way it is not a dilemma if weren´t able to achieve our ambition.

 It seems to me that planning our future is a mistake I am not saying not to care about it  , just to enjoy and not to envy anyone .

 

 

 

Do you think "Rumspringa" is a good experience ?

 

The  Amish community is uncommon owing to their unpopularity. However it is very interesting and different. When Amish youth enter the Rumspringa period they are free of any obligation . I believe it is pretty useful because it makes them decide what they want to do with their life without being forced .

During that period they become  mature enough  or if not it makes them grow up and become aware of their future plans .They are no longer obligated so they go through many new changes as wearing the cloth they want , going wherever they want and behaving however they want,  that  introduce sthem to a new lifestyle and lets them taste other kind of cultures .

Once they have tried all those new experiences by their own without any pressure on them , I think it is so much easier to decide if they want to return to the Amish community or break away from it .

In conclusion Rumspringa is an important interval which show youth amish what life looks like out there and at the same time once it is over they are welcome without any inconvenience.

Genuine or imitation , what do you prefer to spend your money on ?

Now a days it is very difficult to distinguish genuine things from imitation´s . I think we spend our money buying the brand names instead of the quality of the purchases. However, I prefer buying, in general, the imitation products.

Brands are made to make difference in our society ,those  who want to follow a specific lifestyle  will always be interested in the brands and what they represent . On the other hand there are people who care more about the quality of the products .

It is important to have in mind that, not because the purchase is more expensive, does it mean it is of better quality, hence it is not always the best option. On the other hand, imitation means a copy of the original product, so it will not be the same as buying the real thing.

We should be aware of the condition , how useful and necessary it is for us .Then decide if the relation between price and quality is balanced.

To end up imitations may be cheaper , but not always as effective as genuine but similar . For young people if we are talking about clothes, accessories, etc, it doesn´t make sense to spend a gigantic amount of money because it will become  un fashioned or small for us in a few years . Nevertheless if we are talking about electrodomestic or electronics, it will be better to bet always for the originals .

Would you like to work/study abroad ?

Traveling is one of the most enthusiastic things for me , I am sure I will be thrilled if some day I can repeat such a majestic experience of going out to study abroad .

In first place, we live in a world which has an enormous variety of cultures. Moving around makes us aware of all the different meals, religions, habits in general that every country has and we won´t discover it unless we deeply feel it by living there.

I believe that studying or working  abroad is complicated and sometimes undesired due to newness , the feeling of being homesick and the fear of the unknown . Although once you get used to the new atmosphere all your worries will fly away and you won´t realize how it happened.

To sum up ,I will say that the risks in life can be found anywhere , working in your home town or a thousand km away. when you have undergone so many different situations it becomes easier to live with them.